We met at 18, and dated for a year so now 19

We met at 18, and dated for a year so now 19. She had told me very clear from the go she wanted to stay a virgin till marriage. I thought yeah right, and just waited for a perfect moment. One night into our 12th month anniversary i tried having sex with her and she dumped me. I never saw my ex naked or even yet finger her so i missed out!. Immediately after our break up she announced she was now "gay" and got with a girl. It's been 9 months since we hung out, but have kept in touch via phone. She's still with her gf till this day. The other night we were talking via phone, and we started to flirt. One thing led to another and she took it "there" and said "When i get back from college just feed me and i will suck your D". I was shocked and i asked if she's still a virgin and she said "yeah". I continued to ask how far she's gotten with a dude and she said "none your biz". I got mad at that point because nasty images were running through my head. I then snitched on myself and told her the truth. I said i been sleeping around during our break up and she called me thirsty/slut then hung up on me.


The other night i went to her girlfriends online page. I seen her girlfriend had pics of my ex and herself covered in hickies and both laying in bed naked. There's no doubt in my mind these two haven't eaten each other up. The question here is do YOU think my ex tried oral on a dude before??? it matters because i want to marry her soon and i sure af won't marry a girl like this.